Well it seems that John is doing a great job of keeping you up with all the goings on here, so there is not much I can add to his events log except to say that the Half–Way party was awesome! Only one drink, but it was dripping-sweaty-glass cold and a goody!! 🙂 And burgers on the grill smack- dab in the middle of the Pacific, complete with fresh tomatoes, lettuce, pickles, and onion? Pretty damn cool!! Our photo that night at sunset up on the flybridge could be in the brochure!
So, I guess that would lead me into what I want to talk about today. I really want to talk about all that stuff that’s not in the brochure. You know, the brochure on the cruising lifestyle and specifically the brochure on crossing to the South Seas, the dream of every sailor worth his salt. You’ve probably seen it, or if not can visualize what is in the glossy foldout……Sunny skies, placid seas, bikini-clad babes watching dolphins frolicking off the bow, sails (or in our case, handkerchief) perfectly trimmed for the “downhill run to Papeette”.
Oh, Please….Give me a break…..
Where oh where to start? Okay…let’s start with injuries on board…..Yes, I am going to talk about my toe again because the frickin’ thing still frickin’ hurts, except that now it’s my whole foot that hurts….Advil is my best friend, other than, of course, that one Grey Goose which really did help, but alas….
Injuries are not uncommon on long passages, and as you would think, foot injuries are some of the more common among them, particularly on sailing vessels with all the hardware attached to the deck. Now I know that there are those righteous among you who would say ah ha! you should always wear shoes while on deck! Oh, okay…..You have every right to sit in your lazy-boy recliner and spout platitudes about shoes on deck. But the truth is, after 6 years of cruising in the tropics, my feet barely even fit into shoes and those that they do fit into, wear blisters after about 5 steps in them….Just ask my hiking buddies….
Placid seas….ahhhhh…..I can just see them in the brochure…..Azure blue, oily seas, sun shining brightly on the pure white, perfectly set sails against a sky of cerulean….Yes, I can seem them in my mind…..Unfortunately, when I actually look out into our world, I see choppy confused gray water, capped with little berets of white, against a sky that’s even grayer. And of course there’s the mountains of water arriving off our aft port side that rise higher than the level of our flybridge and push us forward in time to meet up with the mountain of water that is rushing to our beam, thus creating a very large roll to starboard, then to port, then to starboard and back almost upright before it starts over again. I’ve heard tales of this stuff, but no, sorry, didn’t see it in the brochure.
Which truly would be okay if we didn’t have to move around at all. It’s the moving around to say, cook a meal or even just grab a snack or a drink that gets you in trouble….Grab glass out of cupboard – quickly before the other glasses tumble out, slam and lock cupboard. Fill with ice (yes, we are pigs…we have ice), blocking ice bucket before it slides out of icemaker into your lap. Put sucky ring on bottom of glass and stick to counter. Check to make sure sucky ring stuck. Lift tea kettle with one hand while holding on to fiddle with the other. Try to time roll to actually get tea in glass. Miss. Try again. Get most of it into glass on second try. Replace tea kettle and grab sponge in one smooth move. Wipe up tea that is now rolling on counter, end to end. Grab glass and duck walk back to pilot house. Place tea on table and check that sucky ring is securely stuck down. Wait for roll…..Hop up onto settee with the upward roll and life is good again. Nope….Didn’t see that in the brochure either.
Let’s talk for a moment about those sucky rings…..Boat show specials….Don’t leave home without ‘em. They are little discs made of neoprene, with a hole in the center that you insert your glass or can into. It sits on the base of the glass, and when you set it down on a flat surface, it sucks down onto the counter, table or whatever. They are a miracle…they are indispensible….they are our best friends….They even come in assorted colors for a festive touch, and I hope the guy who invented them is sitting happily in heaven with his well-deserved crown. But even they are no match for some of these seas. Take last night….Just came on my watch, just relieved Rose, went through the procedure detailed above to score a glass of tea, right down to the life is good again, and about that time, a monster swell smacked our portside beam. The absolutely brilliant sucky ring thingy just could not hang on for its life and gave up the ghost and an entire glass of ice and tea, spilling it over top of both my and John’s computers. Fortunately for my life expectancy and ghost, both computers were closed and with quick action and levitation, I was able to save both. The only casualties were two previously clean towels, sad in its own right…..Did you see that in the brochure? No, me neither. And yes, Wayne…..I am doing the “cursing like a sailor” thing proud.
But wait….There’s more……
Coffee….Before Les comes on watch at midnight, I usually make a pot of coffee for him and John (John comes on at 0300). In the past, I had shown great prowess at this task, in spite of the questionable sea state. Not this night. Water into coffeemaker base….Ha! success! Screw lid back into coffee pot….uh oh, takes two hands….must let go of coffeemaker base…do it!….Big roll…No!! Must grab something other than coffee pot…..It’s me or the coffeemaker base…Split second decision…..Screw the coffee maker, must save self! Revenge of the coffeemaker? 10 cups of water rolling back and forth on the galley counter in time to the rolling waves. Ahhhh…..The motion of the ocean. More towels sacrifice themselves for the clean-up. I would just like to see one, just one, glossy picture of soaked towels hung out to dry in salt spray and 90% humidity in that brochure.
There is of course some good news here (you knew it, didn’t you? 🙂 ). But to get there, we must digress one last time, and then to the night of the 50-knot storm. Now that was impressive! When I woke up and looked at the wind indicator next to our bed, I couldn’t believe I was seeing 48 knots of wind! And in my haste to get up above, I shut the port in our head, which already was wet with rain and salt spray, but neglected to shut the port in the shower, thinking that any water coming in would be contained to the shower and sump. Yes…..Believe me……I know……Bone-head move on my part. In any event, by the time I returned below, there was a good ¼” of water – saltwater – sloshing around on the floor of our cabin. Everything was soaked…..Rugs, several pillows that had found their way to the floor, dirty clothes from the hamper, and most irritating to me, was our quilt coverlet for the bed. It had been kicked onto the floor (Yes, John….I know we don’t need it….But yes….. we do….). I was so disgusted with the entire mess, that I just threw all the wet stuff into the shower to be dealt with the next day, and used, you guessed it, towels to sop up the residual.
As to not belabor the point, I spent most of the next day cleaning up the mess created. (And yes, Freddy, I did wash down the beer cans with fresh water 🙂 ). I ended up taking a hose – you heard it right, a hose – to my coverlet to wash the saltwater out of it so it would maybe one day dry. First, I hung it over the dinghy so it could drip dry, and I must say, it looked very Martha Stewart up there, what with the palm trees and all. Then, I moved it to the engine room to dry. Well, two full days later of 110° heat, and it is (the good news) finally dry, for all intents and purposes. I do, however, have a photo of the dinghy gaily draped with palm trees for the brochure….
And what about those babes on the bow the brochure promised? Well, the babes are here, but not on the bow. The one with the (still) hairy legs is having a nap in the forward cabin, and the one whose bikini days are over is sitting here typing in the pilothouse with her tea stuck firmly beside her and her ass stuck firmly in the seat.
And she wonders……….Just how in the hell did they get those sails so perfect anyhow, with not a lick of wind in the photo?? Photo-shop… Gotta be photo-shopped…….. One more roll and she reflexively grabs her tea glass….
Definitely photo-shop………
ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha hahahahahahahahahhah too funny. You are forever the writer dear friend. Great job!
Oh Kathy! Great bit of writing girlfriend! LMAO! It really gives us an idea of what’s really going on. I guess the good news it’s that it’s all going to be forgotten once you reach those sugar sand palm tree atolls.
I’m happy and amazed that with those conditions, that you guys aren’t all sea-sick. I know I would be. And… You must be losing weight ( not that you need to ) by not being able to cook your usually awesome meals. That means you WILL be in bikini shape when you get there!
Hang in there..it’s GOT to get better – right?
Anyway… We are very proud of you guys and especially happy that you have kept your sense of humor intact! Sending love to you all, and prayers to the sea gods to calm your seas, bring out the sun, and cool “breezes” for the rest of the trip!!
Kathy
Such great writing skills! I really enjoyed reading it! Your cracking me up!! And I know it’s not funny!
And here we are on the ICW…..Whinning about….oh honey it’s getting a little windy out!! Some spray just hit the boat! And look where only going 7.2 instead of 7.4 there must be a current!! Maybe the tides going out. It’s ok we will be at the Marina in two hours!! Would you like to go for dinner tonight?
I will discuss the ROD & REEL with Mr. Youngblood at a later time. FYI …I guess that is why my rod holders are above my bed!
Miss you guys!!
Wayner
Thank you for putting the reality of an ocean passage out there. Doesn’t sound so fun. Have always known that such an endeavor should not be attempted by those of us prone to serious motion sickness . . . Your account has also convinced my Captain, the dreamer, that we would both not be happy puddle-jumpers. Wimpy cruisers that we are, he figures we would need a WHOLE lot more tonnage (not in the budget, whew!) to be reasonably comfortable in the conditions you have faced. Think you all are about twice our weight, so can’t imagine the Mar Azul be-bopping around in those huge seas. Ugh and puke!! Hang in there guys! We talk about your progress every day and are wishing hard that those stubborn seas will flatten so you can have a few idyllic days gliding along before arrival. Stay safe!!!
Kathy: You don’t know me. I’m a friend of Dave and Karen Pabst who hooked me up with your posts because I love reading about your adventures! I just wanted to tell you that you should seriously consider writing a book. You write far better than some published authors! Can’t wait for the next post! Stay safe!
Oh you speak TRUTH, Kathy! And so hard to vent about this stuff on social media sites or to friends/family who don’t cruise. They already think of us as Thurston Howell III and his wife from Gilligan’s Island. Our complaints sound soooo whiny to them, and our concerns are about all the wrong things from their perspective. They ask: don’t you worry about pirates? What about the Perfect Storm, wouldn’t a storm sink the boat? How do you avoid being eaten by sharks? Just once I’d love to be asked: how do you keep from banging yourself or falling down as you clamber around all these narrow awkward spaces? or, How do the fridge and oven not become some kind of sinister jack-in-the-boxes when you open them in lumpy seas?
*sigh* of course it’s partly our own fault I suppose. Because those few flat days of crystalline blue calm get well photographed, and the dolphins frolicking, along with the awe-inspiring views of our landfalls in postcard-perfect locales… and those are the pics I post in the blog!!
We can’t wait to see the accumulated photos of this journey of yours, the good (wind-filled sail… er, handkerchief! half-way partiers) the bad and the ugly (your poor battered toe!) Till then, just know we miss you and are loving the daily updates!
What a great recitation of the trials and tribulations of being at sea. The detailed description is so vivid (and true) that you caused flashbacks to our delivery from St. Thomas to Halifax in the 1980’s on a 60 foot sailing vessel just after a hurricane passed by Bermuda. Rock and roll. We had to hand steer and it required a seat belt on the captain’s chair. A flying fish came through the port and landed on the face of one of the crew. We ripped our head sail and left it out front to be shredded because it was too dangerous to send someone out to hank it down. You won’t forget this trip, ever, but the reward at the end- LAND, beautiful, lush greenery, waterfalls, and rest, await you. It will be worh it. I know you’ll hang in there and support each other. Misery loves company!
Kathy, hang in there – or maybe hang on…
one of these day you can publish your own brochure.. sounds like a book in the making to me.
Just stay onboard and I hope you toe/foot gets better soon..
Kathy, I agree with Sharon. I’m still wiping the tears from my eyes after laughing so hard at your descriptions. You do describe it so well, I can see what is happening in my minds eye. We sit and wait with baited breath for the next post, so we can travel vicariously through your writing.
You all are in our prayers for safety and that the seas will calm down and John can catch an eatable fish. Love you all,
Roseanne